Can everyone be smart at everything?
When a student gets a good grade, wins an award or proudly holds up a painting, we all know by now that we're not supposed to say, "Good job!" Praising the achievement rather than the effort will backfire. To a kid, "Good job" means "You're smart" or "You're talented" — the praise goes to inherent, natural-born abilities or intelligence. But that immediate spark of self-pride will turn into deep self-doubt when the child invariably comes across a bigger challenge and doesn't immediately succeed.
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